Seek the advice of reunited couples who have experienced the hardships of divorce and ask them how they made it as a couple again.
When you talk to such people you get to see things in a better manner and realize that marriage and love are important for you.
Other people can make you realize the fact that love is sweeter the second time around.
You can even get tips from them on how to make your spouse see the love in your relationship.
Also learn from them how to build a strong relationship and keep it going if you get the chance again.
For any relationship to work it needs the effort of two persons and marriage is not an exception.