Here are some of the main warning signs that can help you spot a player A player is usually very deceptive and manipulative.When one enters your life, you could be forgiven for believing that they are a gift from the gods – and that is exactly what they want you to think.If a women is there to support him in his desire to be the best he can be that’s the best case scenario.” 1. On your first date, does he have something planned?Does he pick up the check…does he pick up anything other than his phone?
“I certainly think anybody can evolve and I don’t think that it’s the women’s responsibility to change a man,” he says.Did he ask you out in person or over the phone, as in speaking on the phone?If a majority of your answers are no, chances are this guy is at the plate ready to bat.On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks dating advice with relationship expert Robert Manni.Speaking from a guy’s perspective, Manni provides dating advice on dating a player and how to know if you’re looking into the eyes of one.Conversations with a player are often fun, lighthearted and full of innuendo. The player won't offer details of his or her past or ask you about your life or dreams. Look for subtle and not so subtle cues that sex is the goal for them such as excessive touching, returning to sexual topics of conversation or asking to come over to your place.