Not saying only fat people have those traits, just that its more common. You'll have a great body and the personality to match and don't ever feel like you're unworthy of someone :) hope i could help. If you are attracted to someone, then don't ever feel unworthy. The human is by nature wired to find healthy(fit) = attractive, and unhealthy(fat)= unattractive, for a reason.
You'll keep working for the body you want I'm sure but if you have a swole bro to motivate you then your fitness journey will be that much better. If they find you attractive you're already like 90% of the way there! I have had some funtime with severel heavier girls and even girls that would be considered not that attractive from other guys and with some I am still good friends. Biggest dudes are often the most insecure and hide behind muscle etc...confident and be you they do t want a fake bitch.
For example, a girl who's attractive and fit probably cares more about her health, but it doesn't mean she's a generous and loving person.
It also gets more nuanced: even if she cares about her health, she doesn't necessarily have a strong sense of self-worth.
For years, I never thought I'd be anything but the pretty, big girl. All the cute guys, the kids staring at me and my parents, who didn't want to take me places, cared. I went from size 20 to size 9, and it feels pretty awesome.
So if there are those guys which seem to like you... give it a try, maybe you got that unbelieveble smile that some girls have, which caught me severel times or you got an hilarious humor which can be very attractive too. One of my friends told his girlfriend he couldn't go to the beach with her today because she wasn't bikini ready and she is hot as hell and maybe 5 pounds overweight at most. I'm built and tall but I like short chubby girls even Arnold was quoted as to saying he liked all type of girls. Ask him why he liked them when they weren't fit etc ...
I get looked at for other reasons now, rather than for being fat.
When I feel my new body getting to my head, I remember how depressed, sad and terrible I used to feel.
I had just finished two miles straight and it was a huge turning point of how much I had accomplished.
Sorry, dude, just because you wanted to bone me consistently when I was big doesn't mean I have to stay with you. No one wanted you."Yeah, but they do now, and you're an ass for saying that. He or she may have been there for you, but was it for good reasons?
You already find her attractive now, but she'll only be more so in the future.