Reassure them that no matter what, you are always there for them and always will be.
If you are recently separated from the parent or step-parent of your child or children, the first tip to consider is simple, but not easy: Take a break before getting into another relationship.
It's generally best to let the parent handle discipline, rules, and authority over the children.
The parent's partner can be a friend, a supportive adult, and a buddy but should avoid the role of disciplinarian.
The same goes for how your child treats your partner.
One of the biggest challenges in single-parent dating is competition for the parent's attention and affection.
The children may be used to a level of focus from the parent that's hard to share with some new man or woman in your life.
Nonetheless, it's critical that you be able to lovingly but firmly set a boundary with them.
“Sweetheart, I understand you're curious, but talking about this is really my business.
It's much easier to focus on the positive, exciting, sexy, warm and fuzzy feelings of a new involvement than the yucky feelings brought up by yesterday's breakup. They will come out eventually, and they'll affect the new relationship.